tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29575247068010785762024-03-05T12:59:47.962-05:00Spiraling Toward MediocrityMehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00253620044031643907noreply@blogger.comBlogger128125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2957524706801078576.post-51894079457072176512013-02-13T22:12:00.002-05:002013-02-27T19:33:29.059-05:00Here's the Why<span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="color: #f4cccc;"><span style="font-size: large;">The ground doesn<span style="font-size: large;">'t shake anymore,</span></span></span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="color: #f4cccc;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: large;">My <span style="font-size: large;">footing i<span style="font-size: large;">s</span> solid<span style="font-size: large;">.</span></span></span></span></span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="color: #f4cccc;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: large;">My head is raised, looking <span style="font-size: large;">ahead</span></span></span></span></span></span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="color: #f4cccc;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: large;">Instead of <span style="font-size: large;">anxiously <span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: large;">down at my feet.</span></span></span> </span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="color: #f4cccc;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: large;">T</span>hought<span style="font-size: large;">s inside of my <span style="font-size: large;">head sound familiar<span style="font-size: large;">.</span></span></span></span></span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="color: #f4cccc;"><span style="font-size: large;">When I <span style="font-size: large;">smile, it <span style="font-size: large;">reaches my eyes.</span></span></span></span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="color: #f4cccc;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: large;">W<span style="font-size: large;">h</span>en <span style="font-size: large;">I</span> laugh, <span style="font-size: large;">I</span> recognize the sound of my own voice<span style="font-size: large;">.</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="color: #f4cccc;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: large;">The eyes are dry, my heart is whole. </span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span> </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="color: #f4cccc;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: large;">My gifts I </span>give with my <span style="font-size: large;">entire being. </span> </span></span></span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="color: #f4cccc;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: large;">Oh y</span>es, t</span>his is it.</span> </span></span></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="color: #f4cccc;"><span style="font-size: large;">Life is so mu<span style="font-size: large;">ch </span>better with you. </span></span></span>Mehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00253620044031643907noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2957524706801078576.post-44235562233713249022012-09-03T19:33:00.000-04:002012-09-03T19:33:00.321-04:00DelightHealthy living is for the birds. I miss the days long ago (four, to be precise) where I was blissfully fat and happy, struggling into my sole pair of fitting pants but oh so enjoying that slice of cheese pizza. Now my life is reduced to no dairy, no gluten, and no sugar. That pretty much means a hearty meal now consists of a nice gulp of air and a refreshing slurp of water.<br />
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Tonight I dined on gluten-free, yeast-free, wheat-free, taste-free bread. It came in a freeze wrapped package, like something you send, along with a profuse apology, up in space with an astronaut. Mmmm. I bought some vegan cheese to go with it, but my stomach recoiled upon the first jiggly bite.<br />
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On the plus side, my waist has trimmed down a bit, but even that is hard to enjoy that when you're suffering from a headache and longing for even just a little bite of fruit. You never realize how many products contain dairy and sugar until you actually stop and read the labels. It's amazing. I don't want a donut (although it wouldn't be turned away), I just miss the basics, like a bit of cream for my coffee and a slice of toast in the morning.<br />
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Those with severe food allergies, I bow down to you. This restrictive diet is not for the light of heart or weak of stomach. It's boring, bland, and repetitive, but alas, I should be grateful, because it is food (at least they claim). I'm sure I shall look back at this little venture and laugh at the melodrama with which I reluctantly embraced it, but that day is far, far off from today.Mehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00253620044031643907noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2957524706801078576.post-34973706380905538232012-07-06T11:24:00.004-04:002012-07-06T15:30:03.909-04:00Independence Day<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: yellow;">There is just something about fireworks. For some the feeling begins when they think about the hard-earned freedom fireworks symbolize in our country, that hard knot of pride in their chests that reminds them that we are Americans, despite anything and everything that happens to us. And I hope, as it is for me, the feeling is also one of immense gratitude toward the men and women who ensure that freedom, both here at home and overseas.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: yellow;">Yes, there is just something about fireworks. Just the anticipation of their beginning has us repeatedly glancing at our watches excitement. Then we finally hear the whoosh of a firework being launched, and we brace ourselves, knowing that something brilliant is about to erupt. I'd have to guess that it's one of the few things in life anymore that can truly stop us in our tracks, compelling us to gaze upward.</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: yellow;">But I'm not watching the fireworks. I'm watching your faces. The sea of unadulterated smiles that swells as your world blazes with color. That look of pure joy. That's all the fireworks I need.</span>Mehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00253620044031643907noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2957524706801078576.post-26081743786322052572012-05-22T17:29:00.000-04:002012-05-22T17:29:58.025-04:00gheeIf it's possible to smile throughout your entire body, then that's what I'm doing. I think back to where I was a year ago today, two years ago, five years ago, and although I wouldn't change a thing, I've never been so keenly aware and appreciative of where I am right now. Everything is just as it should be, and I feel like the whole world reached out and hugged me today to remind me that things are going to be okay, amazing even.<br />
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Happy birthday to me.Mehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00253620044031643907noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2957524706801078576.post-30314812865281931332012-04-03T17:43:00.005-04:002012-06-30T20:00:05.805-04:00Tales of a Smelly LunchroomThe other day I was waiting in the lunch line at school with a class of first graders when I felt a little hand start to rub my arm. Now for those who don't know (and why in the world <i>would</i> you know this?), I'm very self-conscious about my arm hair. I have quite a bit of it. And it's dark. Sort of like a gorilla. Anyway, this little boy looked up at me, still rubbing my arm, and said, "You are so fuzzy. Just like my dad." Wonderful. <br />
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And whoever said you need to hit rock bottom before being able to fully appreciate the top was really onto something. I know there's no map, no promises, no guarantees, but I think I just might have found something incredibly precious. And I'm happy. </div>Mehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00253620044031643907noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2957524706801078576.post-52384364846948524922011-06-07T22:50:00.004-04:002011-06-07T23:07:57.074-04:00HelloHello old neglected friend! My how I have avoided you over the last year. But I have an excuse. Well, several. Things sort of fell apart, I had to start over, I'm learning how to live on my own, and I needed to find the courage to let myself feel happy again. <div><br /></div><div>So here I am, back but undoubtedly changed. It has taken me a long while to come to the realization that I can never go back to being the "old me." In the course of everything that transpired, all the tears that were shed, the new quests, the risks taken, the heart given, I cannot possibly still be the same girl I was before this was all set in motion. I'd like to think I'm more brave than she was, more determined, even in the face of criticism and loneliness, to find my true path. But yet maybe a little more foolish too. I'm still "me," but a slightly less naive, more cautious me than I was before, but also a hopeful me that prays I will one day shed the shackles of guilt and let myself move toward the beautiful life.</div><div><br /></div><div>What I have learned:</div><div><br /></div><div>*Houses and "things,"e.g. throw pillows and wall art, may look beautiful but aren't true companions</div><div>*Once you close a familiar door, the person on the other side might never try to step through it again</div><div>*The loving friendship among girls is sacred </div><div>*Time does not always heal</div><div>*Courage and willingness to love can introduce you to beautiful new people </div><div>*I will be fine, great even</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div>Mehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00253620044031643907noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2957524706801078576.post-62767515612214781632010-12-30T23:37:00.002-05:002010-12-30T23:44:09.846-05:00Who Knows?Ok New Year's Resolutions for 2011:<div><br /></div><div>Be courageous </div><div>Learn to like mushrooms</div><div>Go zip--lining</div><div>Stop judging myself so harshly</div><div>Volunteer</div><div>Exercise regularly</div><div>Plant in my backyard</div><div>Take post-grad classes</div><div>Eat healthier</div><div>Get a summer job</div><div>Travel (cheaply of course)</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div>Mehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00253620044031643907noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2957524706801078576.post-17889437696864450802010-09-08T18:30:00.002-04:002010-09-09T15:35:48.557-04:00new year<div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3366FF;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3366FF;">What will it bring? </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3366FF;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3366FF;">The past few weeks have been undoubtedly the hardest of my life, but they have illuminated what I already know: I am lucky indeed to have so many deeply wonderful, caring people in my life. </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3366FF;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3366FF;">Here's to looking forward and not back. Here's to going through the very lows to reach the highs. Here's to figuring it all out.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3366FF;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#3366FF;">Here's to courage.</span></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div>Mehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00253620044031643907noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2957524706801078576.post-40803025917835467522010-07-28T13:30:00.002-04:002010-11-28T23:05:47.713-05:00Found!<div>Wednesday, July 28, 2010<br /><div>1:30 PM</div><div><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;">Counseling Notes</div><div><br /></div><div>The client has recently been "missing in action," or "MIA," as it has been termed, from her regular blogging antics. She appears to have developed a recent compulsion for home shopping, single-handedly moving large furniture back and forth, watching and re-watching mundane television programs, and eating obscene amounts of sugar-filled delights. Consumed by a somewhat new-found calling for decorating, she finds herself deliberating between the fresh appeal of the color "tangerine" and the soothing essence evoked by "apricot" (but then quickly loses focus and hunts for a snack). Unable to visualize in her head the layout and coordination of items, she splurges on unnecessary accessories in multiples colors and sizes at every local store within reasonable driving distance. Upon returning home, she piles her treasures up in the center of whatever room she is currently decorating, moves them around for several hours, formulates new ideas, heads out the next day to buy more, and then eventually returns nearly all purchased items, as she has changed her mind altogether.</div></div><div><br /></div><div>The client also complains of physical and mental exhaustion. Pressed for more details, she provided her daily schedule: Upon waking up somewhere between nine and eleven o'clock, she enjoys a cup of coffee, consumes a healthy dosage of important updates from her favorite reputable website, www.people.com, and then heads out for an afternoon of shopping, swimming, reading, or chatting. She then returns to do some heavy cleaning (upwards of 15 minutes) and settles in for the evening with a bowl of cereal and whatever television programs might be airing. She repeats this the next day, sometimes adding in a leisurely stroll about the neighborhood if feeling particularly energized. Overall, the client reports feeling that she is overexerting herself and might need to cut out one or two activities in her packed day. </div><div><br /></div><div>At my urging, the client promises to try to slowly return to her normal routine, including blogging on a somewhat regular basis, exercising, eating a vegetable now and then, doing schoolwork, and waking and sleeping at socially acceptable hours, as this might help her ease back into a healthier way of living. Updates to follow.</div>Mehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00253620044031643907noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2957524706801078576.post-25211521181504486822010-03-22T22:03:00.007-04:002010-03-22T22:25:06.181-04:00with sprinkles, no, without<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FF99FF;">I just counted the number of books I am currently reading: five. I don't even have that many rooms in my apartment. They are scattered about, one in the bedroom, one in the living room, one on the kitchen counter, and one in the bathroom (yes, I read on the pot, and you do too, just admit it). The fifth is currently MIA but around here somewhere, I just know it. And yes, I am truly reading all of them, but in fragmented, hurried spurts. This speaks to the state of my mind lately--lots of different mental drawers are open at one time, and I can't seem to focus enough to shut a single one before opening another. Pretty soon the whole dresser will just topple over from the weight. </span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FF99FF;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FF99FF;">Pug and I were just discussing yesterday how lately my words can't keep up with my thoughts. I'm afraid that they just keep spilling out of my mouth as they come to me, and I can assure you that there is not one ounce of elegance to it. I am surely frustrating company for those used to following a logical thought process. I literally cut myself off mid-sentence, invent several new words a day by frantically combining several together, and jump from topic to topic like it's nobody's business. Even while typing this blog, I've gotten up three times when something new popped into my head. </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FF99FF;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FF99FF;">School has been so busy that I haven't been able to keep up, which makes me feel overwhelmed, needed, and guilty at the same time. I think I need to try some of the deep breathing and focusing exercises that I teach the kids at school. Self--cut out all this "I need to carry the whole Earth, and maybe Saturn and Jupiter and hell, Pluto as well, on my shoulders" crap and just calm down and eat a donut.</span></div>Mehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00253620044031643907noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2957524706801078576.post-90923098582048516072010-03-16T21:26:00.002-04:002010-03-16T21:28:38.560-04:00It is this.<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#33CCFF;">At the end of the day lately, no matter how hard I work, I'm left with nothing more than the taste of my own selfishness on my tongue. </span><div><br /></div><div><br /></div>Mehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00253620044031643907noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2957524706801078576.post-29207660393431683152010-02-27T15:22:00.004-05:002010-03-07T08:37:15.300-05:00punctuality<div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FFFF66;">This week has been absolutely overwhelming. Some days here I don't feel busy enough, but this week I was lucky to eat lunch by 3:30. I need a pair of skates the way I run up and down the halls. I literally had kids lecturing me for not getting to them soon enough after they left notes for me. I want all of them to feel heard and important, but I think they forget there are almost 500 of them and only one of me. Two little girls: "Umm, this is the THIRD time in two days we came looking for you. You SAID we could talk!" I found myself hanging my head in shame and repeatedly apologizing for not being more responsible. </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FFFF66;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FFFF66;">Anyway, I was hanging with one of my kiddos who is often very unpredictable and difficult to read, so I decided to give him a short learning styles profile and multiple intelligence assessment to gather more information about the best ways to work with him. I read him the questions aloud as he played with my big orange squishy stress ball and made farting noises into it with his mouth. Yuck. But I pick my battles, and this was not one of them. Anyway, one of the true/false statements toward the end of the multiple intelligence test was: "I am concerned about how others feel." When I read it to him, he looked at me like my head had suddenly sprouted an extra set of eyes. He replied, "No! I'm eight." Oh, honesty! Needless to say, interpersonal intelligence did not turn up as a particular strength of his. </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FFFF66;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FFFF66;">This week I had two more, "I never thought I'd hear THIS in elementary school" moments. What is going on?! Some days I feel like a high school counselor and that my little people are so much older, more mature than their appearances would suggest. Despite anonymity, I do not feel comfortable sharing many of these stories here, but I am keeping a journal of the heartbreaking, strange, awkward, and of course funny occurrences that I have already occurred in my short 6 months on the job. I have never once felt bored. What will next week bring?</span></div>Mehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00253620044031643907noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2957524706801078576.post-73823739372050503282010-02-02T19:09:00.000-05:002010-02-02T19:09:48.629-05:00and I see you<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhLJ7kmiU7r6VS4c7ve4iJydkChYTPjwlPwyHblbiyE1LdHbbyWQM8xqH92pPa_rwD5HmuDcYyyyeiG2ug8a_vqp9saXvsZTN-UJ83fwEGYaDt3MWxKA9HqmCBXTAgWGI_lDqORJB3yBdA/s1600-h/sj.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 243px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhLJ7kmiU7r6VS4c7ve4iJydkChYTPjwlPwyHblbiyE1LdHbbyWQM8xqH92pPa_rwD5HmuDcYyyyeiG2ug8a_vqp9saXvsZTN-UJ83fwEGYaDt3MWxKA9HqmCBXTAgWGI_lDqORJB3yBdA/s320/sj.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5432333367311891810" /></a><br /><div style="text-align: center;">It comes down to this:</div><div style="text-align: center;">without you, nothing else makes any sense</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;">02/02/2002</div><div style="text-align: center;">yours</div>Mehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00253620044031643907noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2957524706801078576.post-71442149299408184642010-01-28T20:00:00.011-05:002010-01-29T20:05:25.749-05:00my rear view mirror disappearing now<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiJWz27_OhPXaUf6KXXccCTi-Pa3EXvmE0pVVHXlNhFJcCdBdHffD7V7aVYTg-y2qEwQ0sZOlkd789INCnT7_3-zj6-1kaodQRNVcxKh_FExrIYMjHCAmEVdjUH93toZkps54hk1z9DZ_g/s1600-h/SR051.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 213px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiJWz27_OhPXaUf6KXXccCTi-Pa3EXvmE0pVVHXlNhFJcCdBdHffD7V7aVYTg-y2qEwQ0sZOlkd789INCnT7_3-zj6-1kaodQRNVcxKh_FExrIYMjHCAmEVdjUH93toZkps54hk1z9DZ_g/s320/SR051.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5431988433868899826" /></a>It's finally here and we're seemingly worlds apart now. You have always been the protector, the trailblazer, and now is no exception. You are at this very moment making a profound difference for so many.<div><div><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj1xCo_k11_Pim1f6WByvq6FaKMmP4fe8oKHH9YH3XhfE-cIEOfRbONIfpzxoMGVVMvkd-EQbun5b79zqxWImBm7trBubI5xCN74qvyOL5Do-iwGTuAiDFFYzBuoBWK9bLYju2qWXatbeU/s1600-h/SR134.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 214px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj1xCo_k11_Pim1f6WByvq6FaKMmP4fe8oKHH9YH3XhfE-cIEOfRbONIfpzxoMGVVMvkd-EQbun5b79zqxWImBm7trBubI5xCN74qvyOL5Do-iwGTuAiDFFYzBuoBWK9bLYju2qWXatbeU/s320/SR134.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5431988563606276530" /></a>When I think about it, there's nothing I'd rather be doing than simply lying in the grass beside you embellishing tales from the past and weaving glimpses of the future.</div><div><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg-ushCBXwzX86GK9Yf-mtHbDyDxf-fLn-_B7Z036tARiNCQv-EwxBtWKgbrBpTnu_5Uv-j4cuRYUVvGu0pC5odIo5g_f_bw07fpkrM4BVZXkl6TM-KdSzrB9gvLqesALirS3-QJPIATkQ/s1600-h/SR008.jpg" style="text-decoration: none;"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 214px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg-ushCBXwzX86GK9Yf-mtHbDyDxf-fLn-_B7Z036tARiNCQv-EwxBtWKgbrBpTnu_5Uv-j4cuRYUVvGu0pC5odIo5g_f_bw07fpkrM4BVZXkl6TM-KdSzrB9gvLqesALirS3-QJPIATkQ/s320/SR008.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5432332568479571906" /></a>My mind is heavy, but I look ahead to the days that bring us together. My dearest friend, you will never know how much I admire you for even the simplest things. </div><div><br /></div><div>All my love.<br /><div><br /></div><div><br /></div></div></div>Mehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00253620044031643907noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2957524706801078576.post-57883171249592496482010-01-06T20:24:00.004-05:002010-01-19T10:07:11.929-05:00OvaltineI have daily breakfast duty at my school. It's a real treat. The smell alone in the cafeteria sufficiently stifles my appetite for at least 6 hours. This morning a child threatened to dump her carton of strawberry milk down my leg again. She got me real good before winter break--my sock and shoe were soaking wet for hours. Although I have to say that it beats having syrup dripped down your pants. I disliked that very much.<div><br /></div><div>Today after the morning bell rang I was left supervising one dawdling little seven-year old. She is the long lost poster child for "ragamuffin." No front teeth, mismatched rumpled clothing, wild tangling hair, speech impediment....the whole bit. Anyway, she opened her chocolate milk, took a big gulp, scrunched up her face, and yelled, "This tastes like horse shit!"</div><div><br /></div><div>"Excuse me?" I whipped around. She repeated it.</div><div><br /></div><div>It was a full minute later before I figured out that she was trying to say "Hershey's." </div><div>Scrunchy face + disdainful tone + "hoorshee" = horse shit, no? Apparently not. And thankfully so, because I wouldn't have been able to keep a straight face to reprimand her for such a comment anyway. </div><div><br /></div><div>That's it.</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div>Mehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00253620044031643907noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2957524706801078576.post-50307972877311461002010-01-03T20:39:00.008-05:002010-01-03T21:00:35.337-05:00Bartleby, the Scrivener<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#33FF33;">I received an email tonight from a current student studying at my undergraduate college. She indicated that she was contacting me because she was interested in knowing how I had transitioned as an English Literature student firmly embedded in the world of academia to a working professional. She was seeking some worldly advice, as she found herself in the exact same position in which I had been upon pending graduation (please note: As a former English major, I never end a sentence in a preposition). "Worldly" being a synonym for my name, I am, of course, the perfect person to provide such advice. </span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#33FF33;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#33FF33;">Let's see. How do I use my undergraduate degree? Well, I read books occasionally (and by books, I mean celebrity magazines). And, I write. This blog, for example, is a direct application of the hard-earned money my parents so generously bestowed upon the advancement of my impressionable young mind. Amazing, right? Oh, but she wants to know how the degree can help her find a JOB in the REAL WORLD? </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#33FF33;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#33FF33;">After further consideration, perhaps I shall just pretend as if I never received her email. </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#33FF33;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#33FF33;">Speaking of job, I had better get back to writing my self-evaluation for my impending assessment, or yours truly might be back to pondering the same question as my new little college friend. </span></div>Mehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00253620044031643907noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2957524706801078576.post-45529845337990638822009-12-30T21:12:00.006-05:002009-12-30T21:41:44.712-05:00LB<iframe allowfullscreen='allowfullscreen' webkitallowfullscreen='webkitallowfullscreen' mozallowfullscreen='mozallowfullscreen' width='320' height='266' src='https://www.blogger.com/video.g?token=AD6v5dw-7SqJ5JBUgnK_keVMljMQ01f_oi9MOncKaHp3VNu0AfrONCMFX7379s2K3vtxns402Jmu6aRRE0dnBN8Wmw' class='b-hbp-video b-uploaded' frameborder='0'></iframe><div><br /></div><div>This is LB, my sister and B's new little rodent, er, puppy. When he's not biting your face or pissing all over your floor, he's actually somewhat adorable. </div><div><br /></div><div>This is his first reaction to the crazy ball Suzanne gifted to him (can't imagine why she'd want to get rid of it...) We'd never heard him growl or bark before. Guess when you're 3 pounds, a talking golfball <i>would</i> be intimidating. </div>Mehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00253620044031643907noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2957524706801078576.post-48882873870588400352009-12-29T23:05:00.000-05:002009-12-30T21:30:18.767-05:002010<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiZaLTCPk8sg45cDJEmuA2g_0ir4-X9ybAlMaLKp5HA1lcJKQgkQ2fZED6O8HHjkusrrKBoPYb_NCkdvbR2pF7jlKu69JwkfN-GtGXTm7jnHdLzJJXxUH-cG8agNJ70yNyArLYf5_9vBSo/s1600-h/sunset.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 239px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiZaLTCPk8sg45cDJEmuA2g_0ir4-X9ybAlMaLKp5HA1lcJKQgkQ2fZED6O8HHjkusrrKBoPYb_NCkdvbR2pF7jlKu69JwkfN-GtGXTm7jnHdLzJJXxUH-cG8agNJ70yNyArLYf5_9vBSo/s320/sunset.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5421145209628028242" /></a><div style="text-align: center;">this year i realized that instead of fighting against it</div><div style="text-align: center;">i might just need to see it from a different angle</div><div style="text-align: center;">for it to make any sense.</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;">we all find a way :)</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div><br /></div>Mehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00253620044031643907noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2957524706801078576.post-11863338591344106822009-12-28T13:59:00.002-05:002009-12-30T21:44:34.336-05:00Aeronautics<span style="color: rgb(51, 204, 0);"><strong>Can't believe it's that time AGAIN! Ever diligent, I am sitting down to write my New Year's resolutions. I have to say I did fairly good on last year's....graduated from my master's program top of my class (yeah, I'm bragging) while managing to not get fired from my daytime job, thankfully received several counseling job offers, accepted a job at an amazing elementary school in the county I wanted, ran in a 5k, got a (slight) suntan, and, generally speaking, complained less than usual. It was a good/lucky year! I did not, however, even attempt to kick my caffeine addiction (coffee is my soulmate), locate my abdominal muscles, or manage to stop cursing. Well shit, who's perfect? Rollover resolutions...</strong></span><br /><span style="color: rgb(51, 204, 0);"><strong></strong></span><br /><span style="color: rgb(51, 204, 0);"><strong>Next up, goals for 2010!</strong></span><br /><span style="color: rgb(51, 204, 0);"><strong>Here goes:</strong></span><br /><span style="color: rgb(51, 204, 0);"><strong></strong></span><br /><span style="color: rgb(51, 204, 0);"><strong>Buy a house</strong></span><br /><span style="color: rgb(51, 204, 0);"><strong>Put down the donuts</strong></span><br /><span style="color: rgb(51, 204, 0);"><strong>Stop cursing</strong></span><br /><span style="color: rgb(51, 204, 0);"><strong>Expand my school's counseling program </strong></span><br /><span style="color: rgb(51, 204, 0);"><strong>Run another race</strong></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(51, 204, 0);"><b><br /></b></span><span style="color: rgb(51, 204, 0);"><strong>Cook a meal</strong></span><br /><span style="color: rgb(51, 204, 0);"><strong>Make (or pay someone to be) a friend</strong></span><br /><span style="color: rgb(51, 204, 0);"><strong>Find a new volunteering opportunity</strong></span><div><span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(51, 204, 0);"><b>Grow a backbone<br /></b></span><span style="color: rgb(51, 204, 0);"><strong>Buy or steal a bicycle </strong></span><br /><span style="color: rgb(51, 204, 0);"><strong>Write more poetry</strong></span><br /><span style="color: rgb(51, 204, 0);"><strong>Learn to clean or at least better hide dirt</strong></span><br /><span style="color: rgb(51, 204, 0);"><strong></strong></span><br /><span style="color: rgb(51, 204, 0);"><strong>Well, that oughtta do it. It's a tall order, but I'm up to the challenge. For the first time in quite a while, I felt productive and accomplished in 2009. </strong></span><br /><span style="color: rgb(51, 204, 0);"><strong></strong></span><br /><span style="color: rgb(51, 204, 0);"><strong>By the way, you are all welcome to come to visit us in our new house (when and if such plans come to fruition). Keep in mind you will likely be asked to paint a room, supply and install a sleek new lighting fixture, build us a deck, or landscape our property should you pop by the new abode......you know, the type of small, not atypical requests made of houseguests. In exchange, you will be offered private use of the entire ground floor for your comfort and leisure. Please note, however, that as we are all aware, the cost of heating a home is considerably high these days, and quite frankly this just doesn't fit into our budget. Please dress accordingly (and bring food--I don't cook). I'm expecting an outpouring of visitors, so you are advised to schedule with me in advance. </strong></span><br /><span style="color: rgb(51, 204, 0);"><strong></strong></span><br /><span style="color: rgb(51, 204, 0);"><strong>Happy New Year!</strong></span></div>Mehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00253620044031643907noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2957524706801078576.post-13840391783339411982009-12-15T20:39:00.009-05:002010-11-28T23:08:36.827-05:00How Can We Be?Now that my pretty little carpet has once again been urinated upon, I'm reminded that I haven't updated in a while. Last week I received my first holiday gift: a mug that says "Dentist." This gem was lovingly bestowed upon me by an adorable seven-year-old, who smiled sheepishly and proclaimed that she'd picked it out especially for me. How fitting. By the way, I'm closing the office for the holidays, so if you find yourself in need of an emergency root canal, it's not my problem. <div><div><br /></div><div>Today I received a handmade card that said, "Happy Hanukkah," with a picture of Santa Claus beneath it. </div><div><br /></div><div>I kid, but the mug and card are proudly displayed in my office--I truly appreciate both and love, love, love the children in my school. I have picked out more than a dozen I'd take home with me in a second. </div><div><br /></div><div>Ok, I need to get back to pondering "how we all got here" so that I can get back to an anxious six-year-old with some sort of intelligible (or cop-out) answer. </div><div><br /></div><div>Bye.</div><div><br /></div><div>P.S. A young child walked out of my office a few weeks ago declaring that the hallway was "moist." How to respond?</div></div>Mehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00253620044031643907noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2957524706801078576.post-780357299131207412009-11-14T13:52:00.013-05:002009-12-30T12:50:18.979-05:00Going Going Gone<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#ffff00;">I am truly a model of dedication to serving the little people. Yesterday I spent over 30 minutes combing the hallway for a lost tooth. The poor girl had quite literally lost her tooth. Somehow while being closely examined by another six-year-old friend (</span><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#ffff00;">eww</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#ffff00;">) on the way to the nurse, the tooth slipped out of her hand and skid across the floor. Feeling mighty guilty, the friend was found doing quite an impressive split while frantically searching for the lost enamel gem. Of course the hallways have been cleverly designed to disguise dirt and any sort of small object with their multicolored speckled tiles. I ran to the custodian to borrow a broom so that I could try to sweep it up. Despite a valiant search with the giant broom, several minutes of crawling around on hands and knees, recruitment of kindergarten teachers, second grade students, and the assistant principal, the tooth was not found. Devastated, the first grader slumped back to her classroom sans the necessary evidence to present to the </span><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#ffff00;">Toothfairy</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#ffff00;">. I decided to write a quick note to her parents, explaining the situation, including, "I suspect that the </span><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#ffff00;">Toothfairy</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#ffff00;"> will understand." I tossed and turned all night wondering if indeed the </span><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#ffff00;">Toothfairy</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#ffff00;"> had graciously left a monetary gift despite the lack of usual exchange. Or perhaps my little friend awoke to find merely a note scribbled, "No deal." </span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#ffff00;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#ffff00;">You never know....in my experience the </span><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#ffff00;">Toothfairy</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#ffff00;"> was rather unpredictable. I once received a fake coin (in exchange for the fake tooth my sister and I hid). Often I received an admonishing note indicating that my tooth was not up to cleanliness standards. You just never knew. </span></div>Mehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00253620044031643907noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2957524706801078576.post-2829967250833377702009-10-29T19:34:00.007-04:002009-12-30T15:46:29.149-05:00Fear FactorOk I'm here to complain, something I do quite well if I do say so myself. I have been sick for six days, and my only souvenir from going to the doctor for advice is a pin cushion of an arm that is sure to turn a lovely shade of yellowish brown by morning. Why is getting blood work such a big ordeal for me? Those shy veins of mine get me every time. I even warned the lady that my veins are tiny and that I get worked up when people talk to me about how difficult it is to draw my blood. I believe my exact words were, "Please don't talk to me." Well, that fell on deaf ears. She took 10 minutes pinching and examining both arms. Then she stuck one arm, complained about what a slow draw it was, pulled the needle out, and waved the half filled vial in my face, saying in an accusatory manner, saying "Well! This just won't be enough!" Meanwhile, I'm trying feverishly to stop my legs from shaking so that the entire bed will stop rattling. Three needle sticks later, she finally gets what she needs out of me. My husband, who has been hiding on the other side of the curtain for fearing of passing out at the sight of my blood, finally pokes his head in nervously to see if the ordeal is over. Some help he is. He too has a intense fear of getting blood taken. What a pair. If I felt weak from not eating for days walking in there, I felt much worse walking out! On the positive side, this virus has done wonders for my figure. <div><br /></div><div>Hoping things look up tomorrow!</div>Mehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00253620044031643907noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2957524706801078576.post-91870525905140736562009-09-29T19:35:00.004-04:002009-12-19T09:04:04.828-05:00Do as I DoA church in our town had the following message on its outdoor display board: <div>"Be gracious. You might be the only sermon someone reads." <div><br /></div><div>I usually don't pay too much attention to these posted messages, but this one resonated for some reason. Every day I remind myself that for some kids, coming to school is the best part of their day. It's predictable, safe, orderly, inviting, and most importantly, there are adults there who truly care about them and their well being. For them, no matter what else happens at home, what they witness, what they live with or live without, school is a place where they are taught good character traits and encouraged to incorporate these into their self-reflections and interactions with others. It's easy to forget that kids are always watching us--if we don't model self-respect, honesty, and compassion for them, who will? One thing I promise to always do is to admit my mistakes to children. The only way I know to be gracious is to embrace my humanity and fallibility. </div></div>Mehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00253620044031643907noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2957524706801078576.post-81589598436688304062009-09-26T15:16:00.010-04:002009-12-30T12:50:37.588-05:00There's even a little rug for the bathroom!<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#ffff00;">I had a ten year old student tell me yesterday, "No offense, but I want to see a </span><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#ffff00;">professional</span></i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#ffff00;"> counselor." Ha! Well excuse me and the entirely free and convenient services that I provide during the school day. Fine, bye. </span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#ffff00;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#ffff00;">These kids crack me up. I've now had my pretty new yellow chairs loudly farted upon, my checkered carpet peed on, and all the contents of my little fish tank dumped all over the counter and floor (thank goodness my little fishies are battery operated--they would've been goners). My room has officially been broken in (well, christened if you will) by many cute, germy, and somewhat nosy little children. I also have them to thank for my current illness. </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#ffff00;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#ffff00;">Many kids come in and stare, and I mean </span><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#ffff00;">stare</span></i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#ffff00;"> at my dollhouse. Wide eyed, they ask, "What is </span><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#ffff00;">that?</span></i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#ffff00;">" Um, it's a little house for dolls, not hard to figure out. I think they ask as a way of drawing my attention to </span><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#ffff00;">their </span></i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#ffff00;">attention to it--letting me know that they would really, really, really like to be invited to play with it. I admit that some kids have even caught me playing with it when I'm alone in my office. I much enjoyed watching my husband assemble it a few weeks ago. Once it was completed and we were unpacking the furniture, he toggled between looking painfully bored and put out by having to help with such a project and excitedly picking up items and proclaiming, "Look at this! The lid to the grill opens! And look! Here's a little ladder for the bunk beds! Wow!" The novelty of it to a grown man who did not grow up with any sisters greatly amused me. </span></div>Mehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00253620044031643907noreply@blogger.com1